Letters to my Kids – Dear Caitlin

Welcome to the first Letters to my Kids link up. I hope that you will join me in this new bi-weekly meme about well… letters to my kids. There is always so much to say to our kids and sometimes it’s easier to write it out. It’s a great way to vent, create memories to share later, talk to your child in a way that you can’t do in person, or maybe share something that they might not understand now but will later. Whatever the reason I hope that you’ll be inspired to write whether you’re a mom, sister, aunt, grandma, or just someone who has a child in their life that they want to share a letter with.

letters to my kids


Dear Caitlin,

I decided to start this series with you because you’re my oldest. My first baby… the one that I learned on as I went along on this journey called motherhood. When they handed you to me my life changed in so many ways and I knew that being a mom was what I was supposed to do.

First and foremost, I want you to know that I love you more than you’ll ever know. You will always hold a special place in my heart as will your sisters and brothers. Yes, I meant that to be plural because at one point Danny was mine and circumstances changed that.

Sometimes it’s hard to talk to you and I so want to be your friend as well as your mom. I know that some say you can’t do that but I think it’s possible. I want to be there for you when you need someone to talk to, someone to vent to, someone to laugh with, and someone to just listen when things aren’t going right.

Maybe it’s because we alike in so many ways… scary, huh? But I see it in the things you do or say once in awhile and it’s then that I realize why we don’t always get along.

I will also admit that I’m not that easy to get along with… I’m not sure why this is. I guess it’s just the way I am. I can be cranky I suppose and that is the result of stress which I don’t mean to take out on you. For that I apologize deeply.

I also know what it’s like to be a teen and talking with your parents isn’t always at the top of your list of things to do. You have to believe me when I say that I’ve been there and that I understand. Probably a lot more than you realize.

Caitlin, I want you to know that I am very proud of you and all that you’ve done. You’ve worked so hard and I know because of that you will succeed at anything that you put your mind to.

I have much more to share with you but I’ll save it for another letter or two.

I love you,


10 Responses to Letters to my Kids – Dear Caitlin
  1. Kimberly
    March 1, 2013 | 9:00 am

    Love these sweet words to your girl. And thank you for this meme. I thoroughly enjoyed writing my letter to J.

  2. Mrs. Weber
    March 1, 2013 | 9:31 am

    Aww, you are an amazing mom and I love watching your relationship with your kids from a distance :)

    I hope to link-up next time!!!

  3. Emily @FamilyNLifeLV
    March 1, 2013 | 2:04 pm

    So sweet! I used to blog a weekly letter to my son. Did it for nearly 1.5 years. I need to start again!

  4. Liz @ A Nut in a Nutshell
    March 1, 2013 | 4:17 pm

    It’s true when you’re too alike that you sometimes butt heads. My daughter and her dad butt heads like crazy! But my son and I are a lot alike and get along. Go figure.

  5. Hanan
    March 1, 2013 | 5:12 pm

    I’ve seen these before. I think it’s a great idea, especially because they can go back and read these when they are older!

  6. Tesa @ 2 Wired 2 Tired
    March 1, 2013 | 5:46 pm

    What a wonderful idea and such a great keepsake. I think this would be very meaningful to your children as they get older and I might start something like this as well.

  7. Becca - Our Crazy Boys
    March 1, 2013 | 10:18 pm

    She is going to be SO thankful for this series! What a great Mom you are!

  8. Deb
    March 2, 2013 | 7:52 am

    Such a sweet letter. She will love reading these when she is older.

  9. Lolo
    March 2, 2013 | 9:46 pm

    Such a sweet letter!

  10. Emmy
    March 4, 2013 | 5:01 pm

    These will end up being suck a treasure to have. So Bi-weekly so the next one is the 15th right?

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